Making A Home: Important Things…

Every complete home as four arts that should be clearly noticed or identified; -

1) the bedroom

2) the kitchen

3) the toilet

4) the sitting area

Each of these is important, and for a home to be a home a complete home, you have to have them. They all don’t have to be under one roof, no, but they need to be there, somewhere.

Identifying these parts of your home will make you have easy planning, time and a better development strategy.

One day a friend, who was still staying his parents’ home and was about to move to is own home asked me what was needed for a home to be a home, and what he would have to maintain ad their supplies. I told home that all he had to do was to identify those given parts above, and all identify things that have to be added or changed for time to time for whatever reasons.

The Bedroom; It’s the most important part of every home. You would rather have everything else missing under your roof, but not your bed. A lot depends on your bedroom; your health especially and the hygiene to show elsewhere. A bedroom is the most rarely changed part of the home; you can sleep on the same mattress for years, same bed for years, and same pillows for years and same bed sheets for months, and it’s okay. Such things don’t apply everywhere else especially in the kitchen and the sitting area.

The Kitchen; You’ve got to clean it up! I personally hate to use the same plates and glasses for years. You’ve got to refill those foodstuffs and spices from time to time… this involves trying new ones from time to time to maintain your appetite; pleasure in eating.

The Toilet; Were all rubbish goes must be clean. This will help you avoid a lot of diseases and discomforts. A clean toilet is just as important as a clean kitchen, bedroom and sitting area; they’ll all cause great discomfort if not worked on well. Gentle scents and clean and sufficient utilities in the toilet have made me name it the second most interesting part of the house, next to the kitchen. I can stay in the kitchen for hours and I don’t miss the bedroom or sitting area, and I love to take enough time in a clean toilet… my brain works so well in their, I also feel at ease.

The Sitting Area; This is the most impressive part of every good home just like clothings on your body. Neat and smart clothings define a lot about your like a neat and smart sitting area in your home. I promise you that you’ll always hate to come home early enough if your sitting area is shabby; such discomfort will keep you out late in the night.

Work on your home; how else can you make the world a better place without making your home a better place for you?

Abortion... Think About It...!

Sometimes back I read in the news about a lion that killed a family and the man poisoned it. This man was being pursued by the police; to persecute him for killing a man eater! An animal that was a threat to many more lives; an animal that had killed his family! I don't know were it all ended, but he was on the run; running from the government that couldn't protect him and his family from a man eater; a government that protects animals from people.

Think about these questions:
1) Did you know that some governments are more passionate at protecting animal rights than human rights?
2) Did you know that some governments would rather make money at the expense of human lives than protect or save human lives at the expense of money?
3) Did you know that many animals on this planet are living more comfortable lives than humans; and this is made by governments that do not care about their people?

Anyway, that is something many of us know. After all, some governments care more about revenging their enemies than providing basic needs for their citizens; and if you've been in the media between 2002 - 2008 then you're my witness.

A government will dish out billions of its currency on an animal research while people die of lack of sufficient medical care! Obviously, knowing such things will stir your anger and you'll wish you where a super man or girl, and you would change the course of events in favor of men and women's lives or livelihood.

Anyway, with in such cases above, it's easy to tell who right and who is in need. But hear comes the case of abortion. Abortion is a very completed matter for many governments to decide on, especially whether it should be legalized or not. Judgments of whether abortion should be legalized or not are very circumstantial. Such questions as;-

1) What if a woman is not ready to conceive?
2) What if she is of a pre-mature age?
3) What is it is out of a crime that she conceived, say rape or defilement?
4) What is the father is irresponsible or even denies?
5) What if the father is incapable of sustaining the pregnancy?
6) And, the funny one of all, what if the man doesn't simply want the baby?
7) Lastly, what if one of the parents if insane or a premature?

Should the government legalize abortion in such cases or not? What standards or measures should be taken to prove that the permitted abortion case lays under the above instances? When I look at such cases, I then ask my self whether there are any exeptions or not since to me, it seems abortion can have been fully legalized since almost all cases lay somewhere in one or more cases above.

Should the government protect the babies from such a preventive or murderous practice? I personally think the government should also give some protection to these young people-to-be especially in cases where the mother is fully grown and health-wise capable of giving birth. Religious beliefs may not be just here if considered (since many of them are extreme...) while taking such decisions; it's very true.

Critic…? How do you help…?

The other day while I was seated in a restaurant, I sat close to this guy, so informed, he could easily sort the best from the worst no matter how much it disguises. He was commenting on anything, of course negatively, on the TV show on the other screen, on the movie on this screen, the restaurant arrangement, the dressing code of the waiters and anything the crossed his eyes and rung in his mind. He had good arguments, informed points worth noting, but the expression was poor.

As I walked out of the restaurant, I met this other pedestrian like me and as we by-passed a 2 years old boy holding the Bible with so much courage and preaching anything good about it (the Bible) that would come on his mind, the gentle man commented, “this young man doesn’t know anything worth noting”. He was wrong of course, the little man knew just what he was talking about and other people contributed money right before him in support of his ministry.

As I entered a plaza to get some staff into my hands, I met this other gang boys at a “man age” and they were criticizing anything that crossed their eyes and moved their thinking. They talked national and world politics, sports; football in particular, fashion and more; obviously I took sometime close to them, noting what they were discussing, criticizing anyone, anything.

I have discovered something about critics in my years; they are well informed people (sometime mistaken or misinformed) who want “wrong” things “right”, but cant change anything except talking about it.

I have told friends, many times, that a good teacher isn’t a very informed person, no, but one man or woman who is willing to share his/her idea(s) with anyone just to teach them right, help them understand or improve their lives and decision making.

I imagine, if all we know as critics were good teachers, how informed or right would our society be? This is why I have decided to devote most of my life to writing in a way of informing masses. I wish, many times, I had a “louder” medium through which I could help people know, understand and do the right things rather than comment without helping.

Criticizing helps you analyze facts about something, but a good critic is one who doesn’t only expose the negatives and challenge the positives, but one who will provide recommendations on what he has analyzed. Don’t just talk about anything on the streets, in restaurants or bars.

If you’re well informed, and you have a good understanding and judgment of facts and factors, you don’t have to aim at winning but helping people know, understand and do; come join my crew of teachers, inspired by reality.

Facts About Trust...

Trust is one of the main pillars of any relationship in addition to love; which keep us together even when we are not trustworth. Popularly, trust is most talked about while refferring to relationships like leadership, friendship, marriage and in a few cases while talking about family relationships.

It's indeed true that trust is a fundamental pillar of any relationship, no matter what it is aimed at, so, for anyone to have a good (healthy) relationship with the people around him or her, trust is a good catalyst...

Ok, here are some of the reknown facts about trust anyone must know; miss them and you'll always suffer a weakness in the relationships you have...

Fact 1
Trust can not be forced.
Trust is a voluntary feeling of confidence in someone's response towards given conditions whose results has effects on us; these can be positive or negative.

Fact 2
Trust is an in-built character that develops with time, knowledge and understanding.

Fact 3
Trustworthiness can be learnt.

Fact 4
To trust people will many times seen as trustworthiness.

Fact 5
Sometimes one does not need alot of time to trust someone. Sometimes out of things that look simple comes comes the reasons why people trust us.

Fact 6
Trustworthiness can both be seen in the way we act and speak. In fact, it has a lot to do with the way we speak and what we speak.

Fact 7
Trustworthiness is delicate; it can easily be broken or built - be careful with simple things that you carelessly do... may be that is the reason they don't trust you.

Fact 8
Trust is a feeling; a mentality... an atitude. It's a feeling of security that someone has in you.

Fact 9
Lost trust may take you a lifetime to build, yet buiding tust for the first time may take you even a few seconds; just a while...

Fact 10
Learning to be trustworthy takes more than knowing the difference between right and wrong, yet maintaining it is as simple as knowing the difference between right and wrong.

Fact 11
Trustworthiness lasts longer than any scam can stand. It's stronger than any trick, and is more reliable than any bribe.

Fact 12
Trust has no monetary value. Like goodness, in fact as a character of goodness, trust can not be fully rewarded... in any materialistic way.

Trust is a componet of character that in any society, in any relationship.
You can travel from direction to direction while making enemies; if without it, or you can travel from direction to direction making friends with it... it's your choice!

The Liar & The Sturbon One...

An old man called his two sons; one stubborn and the other a liar. He told his first son "the reason I hate you is because you never listen to any thing, not even pain or trouble. Experience has taught you nothing good except strengthening your stubbornness."

And to the son that lied a lot he said, "Oh my beloved son, I know you have a lot of fears in your heart, and you're very shy that's why you lie a lot, just to get your way through the many challenges you can't stand. But even though know that what you do is not good, I love you because your lies aim at good. You always try to make me believe you even when you are wrong, and even though I know that you're always lying, I love the desperate look on your face, the look you give when I try to doubt your words... "

So finally while talking to both of them, the old man said "...even still, I call you here today because I love you my sons, because I want you to be good people in the times to come. Don't be stubborn and stop lying; these two habits will only bring you trouble. Live your lives like diamonds; what they look like is what they really are – strength, purity and brightness is what they stand for, and this is what makes them precious. Strengthen your morals and let every one be proud of your works. These are the kinds of sons I always wanted to have... at my age, just let my dreams come true... and be good people for our good."

Minding Your Business

Should you run naked, you'll get all viewers amazed, but if you walk gently no matter what you look like, whoever sees you will soon mind his or her business.

But even still, what is the purpose of doing something you know is wrong and you walk away gently thinking that will justify you?

Watch Your Tongue...

All humans have an evil side;
strong or weak,
each human is capable of hurting another.
Do not let you tongue learn to provoc
or get used to trying the evil abilities of fellow men;
people are capable of strange things,
very destructive things.
So, watch you tongue...