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These are lessons, the thoughts and ideas I have derived from my experience in various fields and situations in life. They are educative, and are meant to help you a reader to learn how to live a life of happiness and fairness not only to yourself but also to other people. Thank you for visiting my blog…

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Keeping People... Keeping Friends...

All my life I've always loved to stay at peace with people, and with friends, this has always been a prime objective. There's not one friend in my life, no, they're really many and I thank God for each of them.

When one talks about relating with other people, I know that it's not easy, in fact, naturally, we live all our life trying to learn how to live with people; both friends and family members around us.
There is not one principle that can summarise the principles one should follow while relating with people. But, as a Christian, I surely believe that "love your neighbor as you love your self" is a very important principle when it comes to humans relating with humans.

I have friends that have stayed and friends that have gone, even those that have died, so today I know that some people have come to stay and others will leave soon after their purpose in our life is over.

It's good to know that people have weaknesses, even the people you think of as very perfect or above the normal human standard of goodness. This is why every human will at least experience a conflict, blame or something of the sort in life. Now, failure to know that humans have weaknesses means you means you're far imperfect than a normal human being; this is the reason learning to forgive and compromising with fellow humans should be among the first lesson of every human in human life.

To me, people are such a simple thing to live with if you want to; you see, if this is a goal in your life then you'll spend a lot of your time learning it, and you'll learn it cheerfully.

I've had friends that have pleased me so... much, and friends that have hurt me really bad. I've experienced the two extreme ends of relationships at there worst and best edges and today I know the good and bad in them, even how to live cheerfully with them; it's possible.

Meetings new people is a pleasure I've not denied myself, even though somehow, sometimes I've regreted having met some people. It's true that what you meet many times, every day, will dominate you thoughts, so to me, people; meeting and living with people donates my mind. I'll talk about it, on various subjects because my experience with them is quite big.

Life is a long journey dominated by meeting and living with people. Let's tirelessly take plessure in doing this... because, it's through it that we learn the principle of relationships... something that will teach you how to live with the angels, that is, if you have hopes of going to heven like me.