Mr. Barak Obama... The Inspiration...

Mr. Obama's success in the past US president election has risen almost every man's eyebrows, be it the Blacks, the Whites, the Arabs or Asians. It's true that this is not what any of us living today expected, especially from this generation of elders.

To me, it is some scripture coming true.

At hearing the victory news, I felt like I had lost all the hairs on my body, as if I had been thrown from the peak of the Himalayahs, I shaded some tears of joy, danced cotrollably, smyled like I had done something funny without anyone noticing and then joined my friends Mary and Timothy to alk about the success.

Mr. Obama's success today has confirmed many beliefs, prophesies and sayingw. It has challenged many negative beliefs about black people (regardless of were they live) and is a challenge to every man's faith and belief, both young and old, "black" or "white", man or woman.

For women, there are three things (but not only three) that I would now want to see come to pass;

1) A female Secretary General of the United Nations.
2) A female British Prime Minister (Premier).
3) A female president of China and of Russia.

For the world, there are three things (but not only three) that I would want to see come to pass;

1) The capture of Osama Bin Laden.
2) The discovery of an HIV/AIDS, Sicklecells and all types of cancers cure.
3) A black British, Germany and France Premier.

And one more funny one; to see one million Chines married to black men in as few as one year.

Mr. Obama's success has proved to us that "all things are possible to all who believe". And, that all things dreams are possible to those who keep them alive in them.

However, fellow black men and women, and the rest of the world that believes so much in Mr. Obama's success, don't expect much from Mr. Obama. He is just a man like any of us, a leader pursuing the "American Dream", which though not a global dream, is relevant to the rest of the world. He is going to face his portion of challenges in leadership were he will make his achievements and failures.

Take the lessons in his success story and let him have enough time to re-establish the American Economy, and the foundation of the next Black leaders in the high positions of Global Leadershipship.

Points In LIfe... Self Judgement...

Everytime you reach a point in life were you don't care what happens, in most cases you're wrong about what you're going to do and it will neither benefit you or benefit the person/people you intend to involve.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you're every excited about something than you've ever been before, know that in it lays something that can easily make you more sad than you've ever been.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you feel everything is easy, know you're a about to face a challenge greater than any you've ever faced in your life.

Everytime you turn around in the midst of challenges and there is no one to uphold your courage, know that you are safe; nothing worse will happen.

Everytime you think something is becoming useless to you, keep it but don't dispose it; it means in a short time from then you'll need it like you've never needed it before.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you can't make up your mind, it means the results of your decision will highly affect your life so it is good for you to take your time and make up your mind before choosing the next big sacrifice you're to make.

Everytime you reach a point were you feel you would rather cry for a minute, take your time and cry before you can get more miserable than you already are. This in most cases means you're about to be very happy, but the sadness may limit it if not released.

It also sometimes means you're going to face a bigger challenge so it is better when refresh you courage by releasing the sadness that already exists in you, which makes you stronger and more prepared.

All Because Two People Fell In Love...

It's so funny how life can have two standards, both affecting us, and we still call it beautiful. It's too mysterious how one man and woman with no idea about each other's existence wake up one morning set for their life duties and to each other's surprise (they) meet, fall in love, feel so attached to each other; as if life don't mean anything before, as if they never lived before they met.

One morning you wake up, look through the window and you see a neighbors daughter (about 5 years) decorating her head with flowers in their beautiful flower garden; for an hour of observation, you forget all the troubles in this world and call it the most beautiful place for souls of men.

One evening you take a walk to the football pitch and while seated looking at people play, you notice a father and son enjoying their evening the ball; the little man kicks and falls down, runs and falls down, but will still do it again, laughing with great pleasure. Soon you begin to speak to yourself, "Ooh, how life would be so unpleasant without love... see how it's fruits yeild great pleasure..."

A few months later you meet a stranger whose heart is the gig-saw piece that will make your life complete, and from that day everything looks like it will never end; the smiles, the touches, the fevers... everything, so good, so sweet, so beautiful! Then comes a baby, a boy or girl, and the smiles begin all over again... a new image is part of you... and life begins all over again.

You begin to look at the world in a beautiful and satisfying perspective. All things began like this... and though the worst is still seen among men, it doesn't matter when the end is beautiful... The whole world is feel with beautiful people, beautiful places of pleasure and great hope... all beause two people fell in love.

Life... One Chance...

How I wish there was a better way to say this and you understand well, enough. I wish I was able to speak this loud enough for any of you to understand.

Life is a one chance experience at a time, a one time experience. You can be pardoned and given another chance, another shot like many others call it, but at a different time. You can repeat the same thing very many times until you get it right, but at different times. You can achieve your goal after many trials, but you can't rewind even a single second of time to get anything done at a time that was once gone.

If you are a careful "life student", you'll realize that 90% (and more or a little less) of the time in our lives is wasted time; time we spend doing things, irrelevant things and more of the sort. Some of the greatest success principles are;

1) To know when to say YES or NO.
2) To do the right thing when it MUST BE DONE, at the right time.
3) To determine the worthiness and relevancy of something in time.

Both principles include time, as a great factor.
Therefore, it is good to know how to manage you time; to move when you should (MUST) move and to sit when you should (MUST) sit, to speak when you should (MUST) speak and to stay silent ayou should (MUST) stay silent.

This way, 95% of the troubles you get will be far a way from you, and more than 90% of the time of your life will be allocated to important things or the right things. Don't waste time because you can't replace any - do something if it should (MUST) be done, at the right time.

Childhood... Best times...

As you grow older, you begin you admire every child you see... I mean one in a good state; a good family. Sometimes while walking on an easy evenning, I see children playing, laughing and laughing, and I just wish I became young at least for a few minutes...

Adulthood brings you so much stress, pain, regret, worry, ... and such more feelings. Although I now know why I admired being a grown up while I was young, sometimes I say it's worth it especially when I look at the freedom I earned, but sometimes I wish I spent an extra 10 years young. Ooh, it was so sweet to be young, so beautiful; the best time of my life.

However, this doesn't mean I haven't had a good time in my adulthood days, the best times are those when I have learnt from my experience, between 14 - 22 years. These have been good times... I really appreciate each lesson that I have earned. The hard times, disappointments, failures, salvation [by far, the best time and experience] and finding my fiancee... It's really been a great time... A lifetime worth living...

Psycho-analysing Mr. Obama...

I thank God for the decision the Americans have made; choosing Senator Barak Obama to become the new President of the United States of America. I also thank all those who did not disguise during the campaigning era, only to show their side after elections.

Friends, like Mr. Obama and Oprah in USA, Mr. Odinga in Kenya, Mr. Morgan Tsvangarai in Zimbabwe and of course Mr. Kiiza Besigye and Mr. Elias Lukwago [don't get me wrong because am honest here] in Uganda, I love people who stand for their opinion and defend it; taking the risk of loosing, and loosing everything just to show what they believe in.

These people have really demonstrated their braveness in many occassions.

Then comes Professor Binna Kandola OBE, of Pearn Kandola, who shows his opinion of how he sees a good president in Senator Obama, but after elections. Look at this quote from the article "Experts have created a psychological profile of America's President-elect to predict what sort of leader he will be" published by Sky News.

"When examining psychological profiles of the two candidates - the best candidate won. Mr Obama has the qualities and profile to be a good President and if he can play to his strengths and minimise his weaknesses, he could be a great one."

Honestly, I have nothing against the article, except, the professor should have published this statement earlier, before the election. Mr. Kandola, imagine how many votes Senator Obama has lost because of your failure to publish what you "knew best" about him in time! Using this statement, Senator Obama would have drawn extra hindreds of votes! What do you think professor? Better do it early enough next time... but I loved the article... except, you forgot to tell us that Senator Obama is not the kind of person that can fight emotions like anger... O, am not a psychologist, ... human instict... judgement...