Points In LIfe... Self Judgement...

Everytime you reach a point in life were you don't care what happens, in most cases you're wrong about what you're going to do and it will neither benefit you or benefit the person/people you intend to involve.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you're every excited about something than you've ever been before, know that in it lays something that can easily make you more sad than you've ever been.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you feel everything is easy, know you're a about to face a challenge greater than any you've ever faced in your life.

Everytime you turn around in the midst of challenges and there is no one to uphold your courage, know that you are safe; nothing worse will happen.

Everytime you think something is becoming useless to you, keep it but don't dispose it; it means in a short time from then you'll need it like you've never needed it before.

Everytime you reach a point in life were you can't make up your mind, it means the results of your decision will highly affect your life so it is good for you to take your time and make up your mind before choosing the next big sacrifice you're to make.

Everytime you reach a point were you feel you would rather cry for a minute, take your time and cry before you can get more miserable than you already are. This in most cases means you're about to be very happy, but the sadness may limit it if not released.

It also sometimes means you're going to face a bigger challenge so it is better when refresh you courage by releasing the sadness that already exists in you, which makes you stronger and more prepared.

All That Matters..

At the end of the day,
All that matters is safety, happeness and satisfaction,
And this has alot to do with one's sense of responsibility.

About Tommorow...

You see, you won't know how much it hurts when you're despised until you are despised yourself. It really hurts, and it's challenging... it really stirs ambition...

Reaching this far hasn't been so easy, though I've loved all the experiences I've gone through; though some of them haven't been easy at all, but it was worth it that I passed through them all.

I told a friend time back, "when you see someone needy, don't laugh... in a minute you may need him even much more than he needs you now..." And, she took it at heart. A few days later, her mercies were rewarded after she had felt the same for someone needy.

Patience and respect, regardless of what, are such a good character of the heart. And understand is the only way you can prove that you have an idea about the myseries of life.
Those who have them will see amazing things everyday.

People's lives schedules are not like mathematical principles, no, many times they are even challenging to those "calculators of life".

Turning your eyes to the left you'll see someone crying, but by the time you turn you eyes to the right and then back, the person you saw crying may be more happy that you... so, respect humans even when you see them crying... needy...

A Good Principle For Learning

If you're a trainer or trainee, there are things you should know;
1) As a trainer,
- It's your obligation to make your trainees learn; so make sure they understand you, and that they know it.
- It's your obligation to ensure that your efforts are not in vain.

2) And as a trainee,
- It's your obligation to learn what is taught by (your) the trainer.
- It's your obligation to make your trainer know that you have not understood so that her or she can help you.
- And that it's your obligation to make sure that your efforts are not in vain.

There is a piece of advice for you as a learner;
"It's always good to ask a question about anything you're learning, so don't ask if only ask if the lesson is about learning not to ask questions when you're learning."

Asking questions will tell your trainer and you the degree to which you've understood, and will help him know the best way he can make you understand better, even the best approach he can use to make save time while training you next time.

A good trainee will ask a question, and a good trainer will answer it cheerfully; this shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand. It's simply good to learn, to and make others learn is a great pleasure for a good trainer.

Davis’ Mind Ache

Davis thought he was in chains every time he thought about the restrictions and advises of his father and mother. Punishment for wrong further confirmed to him that he was a prisoner; in his parents’ house. He lived most of his childhood days regretting having been born of such parents.
Every time he saw the amount of freedom his age mates enjoyed, he thought of them as lucky. When he turned 14years, his parents minimized on the restrictions and punishments they gave him, and to him this was a great relief.

His parents new that such restrictions were a strong shell around him, a kind of protection that would keep him away from the stresses, aches and dilemmas of childhood and youthful days.

Because he was young, all this meant little to him, in fact, he wanted his freedom; a freedom to do what he wanted when he needed it. When he turned 16years, Davis got a girlfriend, something he had always desired. Many things happened since, even things he could never explain or even share with his parents though they taught him to always do so; to always confide in them.
Davis lost his first girlfriend, something that changed his perspective of thinking, even his lifestyle.

At 21years, Davis was living alone in the city and had got more than four girlfriends over the years. At this stage, Davis regret having had the desire to get a girlfriend, he had regretted many times, and this time it was getting worse since he was loosing his fiancee to his longtime best friend.

During this time, he met Patrick in a bar, an old classmate, one of the free guys he always admired; one guy that was very disappointed in life, and they shared some of their experiences that had resulted into the pain they were experiencing.

This is when Patrick told him, “I wish I had a tough parent in my young days, one who would punish me for every wrong I made. I wish it was possible to go back to the young days, were someone can advise me or even force me to live up to the right things in life.”
This is when Davis realized that whatever his parents had done over the years was right, and up to the right reasons, and may be it would have been worse if he hadn’t got the most sensitive lessons of life in his childhood days.

*Many of us have passed through various experiences due to lack of knowledge, a kind of skill needed to get us through experiences safely; without pains, stresses and heartaches. But, one thing I have realized in many days is that learning has no age, and there is no age at which one can't be advised. People can only know about us and help us if we let them.

So, what is on your mind that has kept you in pain all this long?